LoveISNOTblind-DV

  📌 Iată câteva întrebări esențiale pe care să ți le pui atunci când evaluezi relația ta: 1. Cum mă simt în această relație? Te simți adesea anxios, fricos, mergi mereu pe vârfuri în preajma partenerului tău? 2. Sunt dezacordurile tratate cu respect? Conflictele escaladează rapid în strigăte, manipulare sau jocuri de acuzare? Încearcă să îl testezi de la început, nu-ți fie teamă să îi analizezi comportamentul! 3.Mă simt valorizată și respectată? Sunt opinile, limitele și nevoile tale recunoscute și respectate de partener? Te simți inteligentă, capabilă în conversațiile cu el? Sau simți că e mai bine să nu îți exprimi cu adevărat opiniile pentru că ai crede că el nu ar fi în regulă? (dacă el nu este destul de matur, atunci e mai bine să te retragi! Nu ești mama lui!) 4. Există izolare față de prieteni și familie? Partenerul tău te descurajează sau te împiedică să fii cu părinții, prietenii sau să îți faci timp pentru hobby-urile tale? (poți să îți planifici lucrurile pentru binele ...

Let’s not be blind and have a look into the financial situation of a relationship. Financial abuse, less known but another form of domestic violence, is  a manipulation of finances and economic resources aimed at controlling the partner, leading to dependence and vulnerability. Here are key points to know about Financial Abuse: 1. Control over finances: An abuser might restrict access to bank accounts, withhold money, or demand an account of every penny spent, leaving the victim financially helpless. They usually ask you to spend time with them rather to work or study! Don’t loose this precious time! If he is the right person and the mature man you need in your life, then He will support and wait you! The abusing man will always keep an eye on your finances and your growth. Will try to isolate and make you depend on him! Be aware! 2.Forbidding employment or sabotaging work: The abuser might prevent you from working, causing financial dependence and limiting their ability to leav...

📌 Here are essential questions to ask yourself when assessing your relationship: 1. How do I feel in this relationship? Are you often anxious, fearful, walking on eggshells around your partner? 2. Are disagreements handled respectfully? Do conflicts escalate quickly into shouting, manipulation, or blame games? Try him from the beginning, don’t be afraid to test his waters! 3.Do I feel valued and respected? Are your opinions, boundaries, and needs acknowledged and respected by your partner? Are you feeling clever and intelligent in your conversations with him? Or do you feel like it’s better not to express your true opinions because of how he would feel? ( if he is not mature enough, then step away! You are not his mother! ) 4. Is there isolation from friends and family? Does your partner discourage or prevent you from spending time with parents, friends or taking time for your hobbies ? ( he is not your child either, so you can plan things for your wellbeing without asking his per...

During my professional experience as IDVA, almost every individual I've encountered first endured emotional abuse in their relationships. It's a silent predator, making way through feelings of love and trust towards the partner/ perpetrator, leaving its victims in a not visible “blood pool”, with permanent unseen wounds. Many women don't immediately recognize it as emotional abuse.  They may describe it as mentally torment, overwhelming fear due to constant threats, or energetically drained from enduring belittlement, lack of support and understanding. The absence of physical abuse often masks the severity of this form of violence. Sometimes they are so brave that they believe they can endure more for the sake of children. Other times, they can’t recognise it because in their family and environment it always has been like that. From father to son, this form of behaviour is considered man-ish. The Emotional abusor is the master of manipulation, control, and he can erode any...